Checkin' Out For A Bit

[xxphenomenonxx]

Hey guys, I'm just dropping by to let everybody know that I'm gonna be gone for a few days. I know I haven't been on in like, the last two or so, but I've been pretty bummed out over some family issues that have come up. What matters is that I'm gonna be going out of state to West Virginia with my Mom- my Uncle had a heart attack and was in a really terrible car crash. I don't want to go into detail about it, but it's a miracle he's still alive considering they had the use the jaws of life to get him out. I've been really messed up about it since I found out, because I've always been really close with him, and I'm sorry if I made some people worry for not being around on yahoo and my messengers, but I didn't need to go around spreading the bad news and bringing everybody else down too.

For obvious reasons we're going to be going to visit him and helping him for a few days - particularly because from the way things are looking right now...we may not get to see him again. And I don't want to miss the opportunity to say good bye if this really is the last time I'll get to see him. I'm not leaving until tomorrow morning, real early so that we can get there without traffic bothering us, but I just needed to let you guys know what happened so that if I'm gone for maybe a little bit more than just a few days, you'll know why.

I'll try to check in every now and then while I'm down there, but to be honest, looking in on Remoor while my Uncle is in the state he's in isn't on my top priority list. I may not even be on much at all until I get back. I'm still hoping for the best and that's never going to change, and I love you guys to death- I just may need a bit of time away to handle all of this. I'll be back as soon as I can and sorry for waiting a day and half or so to let you guys know about all of this.


(Schwimm I'm sorry, we're planning to be back by Thursday, but if I'm not I hope we can move our meeting time to another day real soon).

[gennie]

I pray for the best for you and your family, and you know that.

I just got back from Baltimore-- which was a big hit-- but I was actually planning on a surprise visit lol since my brother is here and everything, but dang :/ that visit wouldn't have blown too well, heh.

I'm a firm believer that if you have a strong spirit it'll help through these situations, and so I would tell your uncle myself but you can say something and just keep him motivated-- and I know this is probably stupid-- but if he is in the ICU if you talk to him while he is under, it'll help. Always keep his mind working-- he'll react, it's crazy, I didn't think it worked but when I saw my grandaddy react to when I called his name, it just...well... it meant the world really.

You can only take these things a step at a time-- I really REALLY hope and prey and wish that he makes it through. I'm sure that it isn't his time, but I'm glad you're ready either way-- that's the key thing, to be strong.

I hope to see you soon-- (which means everything went well haha) So yeah :D Good spirits<3

God Bless<3333

[Schwimm]

First off...*huggles Pheno really really really tightly*

I offer my deepest sympathy for what happened to your uncle. Sometimes life just sucks and throws shit at us all at once. I'll be thinking about your uncle and you while you're gone. You could never bring us down, we can only bring you up. Spread the sympathy around, more people hoping and praying it better than just one.

Tell your uncle that we're all rooting for him. Even if we're just your internet buddies, we love you to pieces Pheno and hate to see you hurt. You've got a big support network here if you need it.

Don't worry about our meeting. We can meet whenever is best for you, so stay with your uncle as long as needed. I've got a car and weeks left of summer that I want to make full use of.

Good luck, keep the hope alive, we're rooting for you, we love you, life sucks, yeah I think that's it.

WE LOVE YOU PHENO!

[Feather]

*joins in the Pheno hug*

I think that Krank and Schwimmy covered it.

I hope that things work out well for both of you.

We love you Pheno--so much. Sorry its short, and lacks eloquence--but this isn't exactly my thing.

*hugs one more time*

<3--_Feather